With Opened Eyes

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This blog entry is written by Amy only. While Marc hung out with our kids, I chose last week to attend a summit meeting offered by a national coalition called the Campaign For A Commercial-Free Childhood (CCFC). I had no idea what I'd be hearing, or whether I'd be spending two precious days of free time on a worthy endeavor. But I took a chance because shielding my kids from a mass-marketed childhood (without being a nut about it) is one of my passions. I write now as changed person.

Surrounded by experts and leaders in a room that crackled with passion and warmth, I learned about atrocities of marketing that made me feel so naive. I learned of the effects of this marketing on our children's self-esteem, non-material outlook, and ability to form loving and healthy relationships with friends and boyfriends/girlfriends. I saw some really horrible stuff. And then I learned about people who are making a difference - challenging the rights of companies to market directly or subtlely to our children right in their own schools, on their TV shows and on their schoolbus rides.

Here's just one example of a current CCFC campaign: "Thongs for 10-year-olds that say “eye candy.” Shirts with slogans like “Who needs brains when you have these?” and “Do I make you look fat?” Ads touting group sex to sell clothing to teens and preteens. When it comes to sexualizing children, Abercrombie & Fitch is among the worst corporate offenders. That’s why it’s so egregious that Nationwide Children’s Hospital in Columbus, Ohio is planning to rename its emergency room The Abercrombie & Fitch Emergency Department and Trauma Center in exchange for a $10 million donation. These naming rights will entwine an institution of healing with a company whose advertising is notorious for undermining children's wellbeing and will promote the exploitive Abercrombie brand to children in a hospital setting. Please take a moment to tell Nationwide Children's Hospital not to sell naming rights to Abercrombie and Fitch." A letter is available on the site to send quickly and easily to the hospital administrative staff to object to this source of funding - I've sent mine already. Please consider doing so too, if this topic is as important to you as it is to me.

Do I sound like a convert to a new cult? A prudish mom? Please don't take my word for it! I invite all MomsRising and FamiliesRising members to check out the CCFC for yourself and join with them on some crucial causes that we have in common. I feel grateful for having been able to attend their summit conference, and renewed in my hope that things can change. That's what we're all about here at MomsRising and FamiliesRising too! Together, we can be that much more powerful!

CCFC stand on TV is lunacy

My kids don't watch much TV -- in fact, it is rarely turned on in our house. At most, we watch 1 hour a week and most weeks not at all. Nevertheless, the CCFC is a radical organization that wishes to eliminate young kids tv shows entirely. The CCFC is so out of line it is ridiculous. Decisions about TV watching -- like almost all decisions on raising children -- should be left to the parents and the patents alone, not government regulation and elimination. That's called censorship. Ratings based on concrete criteria are welcome. Banning the sale of movies, TV and cable shows for kids is lunacy.

The big thing these days

The big thing these days seems to be Star Wars, from 3 to 13 year olds. Cartoons, lego-based video games, all sorts of things. And there's nothing directly wrong with the "message" of Star Wars, but after all it is about people killing each other.

Good message?

TV Free but what can they watch?

I agree that TV is becoming more and more controversial for our children that even cartoons have really bad subliminal messages. But then what can we allow our children to watch as my 3 year old can even make distinctions about the various cartoon channels from the icons next to them on the cable stations. I have invested in the Baby Einstein collection but have some reserves about disney too, guess we can't win all battles.

TV free takes work

We don't have to allow our kids to watch anything! We all grew up in a time when we didn't watch a lot of TV. Have your kids play outside, draw, read, pretend, build, or other activities designed to open their minds and help them grow. I am a teacher and I see the effects of kids watching too much TV. They can't amuse themselves and they can't think!

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